Corny plays on the English language are classic and always elicit a good chuckle.
My Tunisian project, the final ruling.
I think I MIGHT like it! I have actually started a second project, who knew!
If you are completely lost at this point, please check out this post for the first part of this saga….if you have anxiously been awaiting this post, here ya go pals!
In case you’re a visual person, here was the beginning of it. Shocker, I ended up ripping most of it out from this point and I pretty much started over. I was thrilled with the end result! I still definitely need to figure out how to join it better when making an infinity and if anyone has any advice on this, feel free to comment below!
I also managed to put a hell of a dent in the scrap stash in the trunk….which means there is more room again to go yarn shopping!
So there ya go! My first run at a Tunisian crochet stitch! Have you tried it yet?? If you have. share your pics in the comments!!
A long, long time ago, in a land far, far away….called the internet….I wrote a blog post about “if I had a kid”. The concept was that I would use this title to share little tidbits of wisdom that I have come to value throughout my life journey.
The first one was about showering.
Probably a good thing I haven’t had kids.
However, if you’re dying to read it, here ya go…click away! lol!
Anyway, today’s contribution is hopefully a little more deep that keeping up with basic hygiene. I want to take a moment to dig into something super important to me, which is taking a moment to realize that every single person around you is going through a laundry list of stressful items that are playing on their souls every damn day.
Putting it shortly.
Walk a mile in someone else’s shoes.
I myself am so guilty of getting caught up in my own drama (even though I work so hard to cut drama out left and right!). It is SO easy to let your life become all consuming. To the point where you come across that person while your in a store, or a restaurant and you snap at them. The innocent victim. You have not idea what’s going on with them and frankly vice versa.
At the end of the day, we are ALL bogged down with too much stress. We are ALL doing the very best we can to keep our boats from sinking. We are ALL juggling mental, physical and emotional health battles.
However, I believe taking those moments to breathe, step back….reassess and just remember, we are all human. We are ALL in this mess together. So, here is a quick list of some of the things that I have to remind myself to do sometimes that might help someone have a better day.
let them chose what is for dinner
practice a random act of kindness
hold the door for someone
make them a cup of tea or coffee
when they ask for a ride, give it
smile at strangers (they might think you’re creepy, but they might smile back, ya never know!)
crack a joke and get someone laughing
check in on people
don’t go out of your way to be a jerk
actually comment on their social media instead of the distant “like” button
call them (especially if they actually like to talk on the phone)
compliments are always a solid choice, especially when they are legit
park farther away and let someone else get a closer spot
be patient with people
do not lose your mind over a piece of limp lettuce on a sandwich on the poor cashier
thank people, thank them a lot
prizes, everyone loves prizes
fill up your brother’s car when he lets you borrow it
clean up the dog crap
if they need a hug, give it…it won’t kill ya
put things in perspective
let someone have control of the tv remote
empathically listen when they are talking, there doesn’t always need to be a fix
when someone trusts you, don’t break it
Now, some of these might seem super specific, they are! lol! Some of these are examples of what some of my friends have gone through this week alone.
So, take a moment, breath…you got this! So do your friends….but we all need each other.
Next post….the finished Tunisian scarf! I know you are just tingling with anticipation.
I am sitting here laughing at myself….mainly because that title could apply to my ENTIRE LIFE.
Buy a century home….it will be fun they said.
Own horses…it will be fun they said.
Become a teacher…it will be fun they said.
Try Tunisian crochet…it will be fun they said.
Ok, ok, ok….in FAIRNESS, all of those and my entire life do have some fabulous shining moments and I wouldn’t trade a single bit of it.
To clarify, this post is about Tunisian crochet and my lame attempt at it so far. So, if you just read those words and thought, “Um, stupid.”. My feelings will not be hurt when you dip out right now.
I have been crocheting for about 20 years and I have never tried any of the Tunisian stitches. Funny fact, neither has Momma D….which shocked the living hell out of me, because she if it falls under the crafting umbrella, I thought she had done it!
So, I was finally ready to give it a whirl and I found this beautiful scarf pattern on Pinterest (where else, duh?!)
I loved it. Who wouldn’t?? It drapes beautifully. It appears to be exceptionally warm and snuggly. It would match so many outfits.
I was SOLD!
One little problem…or a few. I did not have that gorgeous yarn on hand or anything even remotely similar and I am on a yarn purchasing hold. The trunk is overflowing and I have restricted all yarn purchases until I use up some of the stash.
So, the next best thing was this Red Heart super hot pink, right?! Well, it’s what I went with. You can see the culprit right there on top of the pile. Honest, the biggest reason I selected it was because there was an ample amount of it left.
Next issue was that the original pattern called for it to be twice as wide than what is shown. As soon as I got a couple of rows in, I realized because of the weight and texture difference in the yarns, that was going to be a terrible idea. So, I ripped and ripped, starting over at 1/2 the width.
Now, the next issue is….Tunisian crochet turns out, feels very knit-like. I do not mind knitting, but I am terrible at it. I don’t have the patience and I suck at fixing mistakes. With the Tunisian, a huge bonus is it is easy to fix mistakes (in my experience so far).
But man, it works up SLOW.
Over the last couple of evenings working on it, I have started to enjoy the methodical slowness to the project, but it has taken a minute of getting used too.
Then last night, I ran into a new issue. I ran out of the pink.
It is too wide to be a cowl, it is too short to be an infinity. So, I broke into the trunk and dug out some other colors, thinking that I might try going the “scrap” look route??
I am still not sure about it. My edges are horrible and obviously need some more practice.
So, what do I do? Rock it out for exactly what it is, a practice piece and just let it work up however it’s little heart wants too?? Rip it out, narrow it again and just keep practicing and hopefully get an infinity out of it as a single color?
Also, feel free to share pics and helpful hints in the comments! ALL ADVICE IS WELCOME!
Parting Friday thought…
Dead serious. You have zero idea of how much you mean to so many people. You might not see or hear it, but you are!
Recently, I was faced with some heating issues at the old house. Nothing too seriously and eventually (when the weather breaks) fixable. However, it did leave me in the midst of the Great Polar Vortex with no heat. I stayed in the house for 24 hours with supplemental heat before the decision was made to winterize the house and move out until the worst was over.
However, in that small window of time, I had a lot of time to think….and stress. Now, mind you, the house was maintaining at about 45-50 degrees! I personally found this amazingly impressive since we were being hit with wind chills of -20 to -25.
Back to the point.
I could not help but think of the homeless who were out suffering in the arctic temps. Northeast Ohio isn’t any more or less special than the rest of the country in this regard. In Akron, there has been a bit of a battle between the city and a private resident who has been using his property to provide shelter for the local homeless. The biggest point made from the entire argument is that there is a huge problem when people are living homelessly for prolonged periods and we as a society move right on by.
Chicago was nationally reported on for the issues they were facing and the amazing good samaritans who stepped up to help. Hats off to you Candice Payne for everything you did and are now doing to help! Not to mention, the city of Chicago for using their transit buses and mobile warming centers. Now that is thinking creatively!
Then, I was watching the Netflix documentary The Story of Us with Morgan Freeman, and one of the episodes talked about a gentleman in the UK who goes around and gives homeless people free haircuts. In the process of his generosity, he developed the #DoSomethingForNothing. Joshua Coombes, you also sir…are a saint.
Do you ever feel like the universe is throwing signs in your face? Like hello you dumb ass, wake up and pay attention?
Enough rambling, get to the point girl.
In the past, I have donated goods I have made to the homeless. Truthfully, it is when I have items that have not sold and need be rotated through to make room for new stock. Mainly, because I am addicted to crochet and will ALWAYS be making stuff until my little fingers fall right off.
I seriously feel bad just saying that. They were discards. I know they helped people. I do. I just recently donated two trash bags of scarves to the homeless around the school where I work. I know the people who received them probably greatly valued them, especially during the Polar Vortex.
One piece was missing though. The personal connection.
So, my goal for the winter of 2019-2020 is this. I want to make 20 beautiful, warm and snuggly scarves/hats/blankets and I want to personally donate them and shake the hands of the recipients. I want them to know that I see them and they are not just the underbelly of society to me.
I do feel like it is a pathetically small thing. So small. But it’s a start. Who knows where it will grow. However, hopefully my teeny-tiny step will spark a little flame in someone around me…because the world needs more love. It definitely can’t hurt, right??
So, we have been busy lately painting a lot of really cool pets. I have had the privilege of meeting some really cool people and I LOVE it!
A few months ago, I was approached by a friend who has asked if I would consider teaching a Paint your Pet type class. It’s kind of funny, I had never considered it. Ironic, given how much my life revolves around pets of some sort. Honestly, I think I was scared of failure. The fear of letting people down. One of the primary goals in teaching classes was that people would be able to relax, socialize and truly enjoy what they created. Pets seemed scary.
But I said, sure….let’s give it a whirl. I had a ton of response! Apparently, people really love their pets. WHO KNEW?!?!?!
For the pet classes, I did manage to get my new easels made. I was actually pretty impressed with these little guys. 1. I made them from scrap materials pretty much. 2. They actually seem to work pretty well!
In this class, I had a couple of newbies and I can not lie….I was super nervous for them, because I didn’t want to let them down! But as they started to work and I started to see their paintings come together, I got really excited for each of them. As they worked through each of the individual challenges of their pets, I could see their excitement grow. By the end of the class, I can not express how happy I was with them!
By the end, I think everyone was thrilled! I even have some who want to come back to paint the rest of their 4-leggeds! “B” in particular has 6 more to go because she is a saint who works with rescues!
Thank you for your dedication my friend.
Also, if you happened to notice the abnormally high amount of injuries in this group…for the record…. they were all injured BEFORE they came to my class. I had NOTHING to do with it!
For the second group, they broke ALL the rules. Just had to put that out there. I have never had a group of such intense workers. We had a blast. It was also the first group who actually asked if I had tunes to listen to….which melted my heart. I am a music junkie!
This group also had some newbies….a few who were probably more qualified than myself to teach this class! To see each of them work, it was truly cool. The best part, regardless of each of their previous experience, they each made their own progress in their work. It’s all about challenging yourself sometimes, weather you are a veteran at something, or a new kid on the block, push your boundaries!
So, after the marathon painting session, I can honestly say that I think everyone left feeling accomplished with what they had created. I had one…and maybe two…who might try to work on theirs a little more outside of class. I was promised pics of completed works! Which was another first, but it was great to see their dedication to their creations.
Check out the photo bomb job from Beau. He’s the best!
Here was another first. They aren’t spoiled or anything.
I have noticed a couple of things about teaching these classes. People tend to be very nervous to put that first mark on a nice clean canvas. I think that idea applies to life in general. Some of the greatest journeys have to start with a step and it can be terrifying. Who wants to make the wrong line, take the wrong steps or ruin what they think is a perfect canvas? But at the end of the day….putting that first mark on, taking that first step…can lead to something truly beautiful and amazing. Take pride in the journey. Love to results of process. It’s just all little decisions that come together to make something wonderful.
That was deep.
On that note…the hallway debacle is up next! Ohhhhh, what a debacle it was…still is…lol!
5 Things that make you happy! All 5 should be something you will experience in the next 24 hours (or the past 24)! They can be little…like having the time to actually tweeze your eyebrows…I’m just saying!
So, here are mine! Depending on if anyone actually participates, there might be a prize involved. But for the internet being endless, it seems rather lonely at this point!
I didn’t have to pay in our weekly weight loss challenge, and it was the week of Thanksgiving. That is practically miracle worthy!
I got to see something that looked like sunshine today!
I ate chocolate today….and frankly, it was delicious…and well worth it!
I started my Christmas shopping…and almost finished it (in about two hours mind you).
I got to have a conversation with a friend and as a result, got to see her smile for being happy about something!
Ok, go ahead…be brave…add your 5 in the comments. If I knew how to call out other bloggers, I would. That might be my next mission!